Welcome to My Blog!

self improvement for you

Welcome to my blog site at jayrando.wordpress.com. I have begun a blog site based on several discussions mainly stemming around ‘Self-Improvement‘. This is an Introduction post on what I offer here at my blog, I love my Psychology, Philosophy and Sociology but i really enjoy the prospect of improving myself as a person and hope that i can share some great posts with you all.

Self Improvement is a modern concept used more openly in today’s world, Self improvement can also be known as Personal Growth or Personal Development. I wanted to start a blog site which brought up a lot of issues we face during maturity and growth; there are tips, advice and guides on how to overcome personal problems. My blog topics will mainly be on things such as health, happiness and self help as this in my opinion is the most important issue for people who constantly suffer or don’t know who to turn to for help or advice.  Most of all this site can offer you lots of articles and posts based on your improvement, have you always wanted to become a better person? To become the best self? Its all possible here at my blog site and over time i will add more and more posts which will explain different ways and techniques of how to reach your full potential as a person.

Some others types of posts I will share will discuss and answer questions related to ‘Relationship Advice‘, ‘Counsel’ and ‘Health’. I currently specialize in relationship advice and counsel; I have been doing counsel work for people through online web sites and forum who have had problems in their relationships. I enjoy helping those who need advice and comfort during the hardest times of their life, to add we have all had to go through painful moments or moments where we are so lost we need guidance, if for any reason you are feeling this way you have come to the right place and if you wish to ask me any questions feel free to drop a line or comment at the bottom of this page.

If you wish to simply drop me a ‘hi’ or to recommend a blog idea please feel free to do so, this post is for you to say hi, ask questions and require any help. If for example you have any relationship troubles, have lost an ex boyfriend or girlfriend or are facing a specific trouble in your life feel free to leave me a comment and i will do my best to both answer you and give you my thoughts on your situation. If you need help in working out what your partner needs or wants I will be able to let you know and on top of that I will contemplate writing up a blog of common problems we face and how to correct them. Apart from relationship counsel for the majority this blog will be about self improvement as I mentioned but most of life’s problems do tend to affect relationships and friendships with people and its very likely there are many answers here already which will tell of what to do. But of course if your situation is unique feel free to post, if i get enough comments then i may begin another blog on relationships.

Here are some suggestions for what type of posts you want to leave.

  1. Post any questions on any troubles you are having in your current situation (including family troubles, relationships and dating), I love to help and give advice and feedback.
  2. Post any questions on how to deal with specific problems outside of the usual, i.e a unique situation you are in: perhaps there is a more generic needle in your side that you need to get off your chest and need help doing so.
  3. Post any questions on how to get over breakups or how to get an ex back (these questions are allowed too).
  4. If you wish to ask me a question privately i can give you my email address to mail me.
  5. Any other comments can simply be “Hi”s or questions based on other topics which are similar i.e Personal Growth – how to overcome fear etc.

There is much to learn and much to enjoy from this learning, I hope I can help everyone with their daily life problems. I have spent the last 5 years on numerous forums and sites helping people who needed such help. If you have any fantastic questions to put across such as asking me to give advice on specific subjects I will be more than happy to blog on those topics and share them. It is all enjoyable to me for me to help you. Talk to you soon!

Here are some common questions people have asked or searched for recently:

Q: “what dose it mean when a girl say she like you alot”

A: I would likely say she likes you, I cant foresee any other reason why a girl would simply come out and say “I like you a lot” unless you asked her for an opinion on yourself which is different to her just saying it. If she just said this randomly with a big smile on her face like she was trying to impress you and give you a hint then YES she does like you and is giving you a hint to ask her out. ‘ALOT’ is a big word but watch her actions and her body language to also determine.

Q: “what are the signs he only likes me as a friend”

A: Hey wouldn’t it be more right to ask for the signs that he likes you rather then the signs that he doesn’t? Does he treat you like the rest of his friends (especially the ones of the same sex as you)? Does your friend you are interested in give you any special treatment? Does he seem happy and excited to see you? A guy will usually ask a girl out he finds attractive but if he isn’t or hasn’t yet and you want him to you can always drop him a few hints. Do not make it obvious you like him but make sure you give him a hint or two and then see how he reacts. See how he acts around his friends and compare it to how he acts around you. The more he treats you indifferently or in a special manner the more he likes you.

More questions to come. Please free to drop by and post your questions!

~ Jay Rando

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